Life

Being organized and having a routine has always been essential for me. I find that I can get more accomplished and less likely to fall behind in those many to-do tasks that we all face daily. After becoming a mom, it was apparent to me that the same rules apply. It is an absolute necessity for parents to declutter, get organized and establish a routine.

Recently, I was chatting with another mom and I was talking about getting home to get a few things done and then begin our nightly routine. She complained about behavioral problems in her own children and then quickly dismissed my mention of routine by saying oh just give him a bath in the morning. I then went on to explain that we love our routine and how children need a routine. This Mom again dismiss my routine ideas and once again complained about her children’s behavior and how they go to bed at 10 or 11pm some nights.

First, I believe that a clutter and disorganized home leads to a disorganized mind and bad decision making. Second, routine is key to a well-run home. Children not only love routine, they need it. They need to know what’s next. Ever wonder why your toddler loves to read the same books over and over again? One reason is that they love that they can predict what comes next. It builds confidence, security and comforts them.

Here are my 3 steps to getting started:

1. You don’t need to rush and stress about getting organized overnight. Break it down into projects. Spend 10 to 15 minutes on a certain project every day or every other day. Whatever you do, please be sure to actually tackle the projects. Do not leave them on the back burner.

2. Establish a routine for meals and sleeping times. Figure out what time your child needs to eat and sleep. Then decide what prep needs to get done prior to eating and sleeping. Being hungry or overtired is a sure fire way to have a cranky little one.

3. Fill in the blanks. Determine other key tasks that are must-dos, how long it takes to get them done, and how you can best get them done efficiently.

Routine Myth

“Your child will not be flexible if he or she is used to a routine.” This couldn’t be further from the truth! By establishing routines, you are setting an example for your child. A routine will enable your child to be able to plan and make better decisions in life later on. Sure there will be occasions when a routine gets disrupted like holidays and vacations. However, explain that to your child and try to get back to your routine as soon as possible. You’ll be surprised at how easily your child will slot back into routine.

Getting into your routine will take time and it is never too early to start. Don’t be afraid to make adjustments as necessary. To start, establish a morning routine and evening routine. Test your new routines out for a week and make adjustments as necessary. You and your family will feel less stressed and overwhelmed with a workable routine.